Never done anything like this before usually I’ll drink a lot or make other mistakes that just prolongs the pain. I’m told to keep my mind busy and don’t contact and everything will be ok. Most of the time it feels impossible. I’ll humiliate myself by I guess begging. Losing this girl feels like losing myself.
I can relate, I felt so lost after my breakup. Not sure exactly what advice would be most helpful, but I’m proud of you for not falling into the same negative patterns as previous times. And wanted to remind you to ask yourself, if you honestly want to be with someone you have to beg to even give you another chance? If she doesn’t want to, I know it hurts, but your energy and self-esteem are better spent healing your heart with friends and then finding someone new
Breakups are extremely emotionally difficult. Good on you for taking different steps to cope. I'm sorry it feels like you're losing someone so close to you. If you are hoping to see her again, the best thing you can do is work on yourself right now. Heal your own heart, take care of yourself. Work on whatever it is you think you contributed to the relationship ending. You can do this 🩷
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