I met my boyfriend in july 2024 at first he was very caring he cries when i dont want to talk to him he chase me whenever i bring up break ups but now hes okay without me he prioritize his works and i get very jealous over that i always wanted him to be with me i dont want him to socialize with other people because i get used to him being with me all the time what should i do? hes suggesting that we need a cool off 😞
If quality time is your love language then it makes sense you want time with him. But if you need to be with him all the time I would investigate. Maybe it would be good for you to try to have time apart and focus on parts of your life that matter to you. It could also be that you have an anxious attachment style or another insecure attachment. Those can make you feel anxious when you feel like your partner is drifting away, which can affect how you’re showing up.
Hmmmmm idk if I’d say ‘Toxic’ but I’d definitely suggest investigating why you feel the need to have him around you all the time. Do you feel ok by yourself? Do you have any hobbies / friends you can hang out with while he is seeing his friends?
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