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competentactoro
12mo ago
Seeking Advice

Just got my heart broken for the first time

I’ve been in many relationships before but most being because people liked me and I didn’t say no but that’s not important. My SO just broke up with me for no reason. She just randomly tossed me to the side and I didn’t even find out from them! She sent me a video of her best friend laughing that she’s ditching me. This hurt and still does. I’m beginning to question if love can ever happen to me again. I feel stupid for giving someone my heat just for them to stop on it.

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ruralmonthtet12mo ago

Hey, I just want to say I’m so sorry that happened to you. No one deserves to be treated like that, especially not when they’ve opened their heart to someone. Being tossed aside, and in such a disrespectful way, is cruel. And it’s okay that it hurts of course it does. You’re not stupid for giving your heart you’re brave. What they did says everything about them, and nothing about your worth or your capacity to be loved. Love didn’t fail you someone just failed to treat you with the love and respect you deserved. Please don’t let this one awful experience convince you that love isn’t out there for you. Real love healthy, safe, and mutual exists. And it starts with choosing yourself again, day by day. You’re not broken. You’re healing. And healing is proof that your heart still works.

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offensivejudgewoh66712mo ago

Just take a deep breath, close your phone, focus on your health, and only you, don’t worry about anything else. Eat well, sleep well, let it out, just try to hold on, one day at a time. Took me 37 days to feel okay again, but it gets better, I promise, one day at a time. Dont talk to her, don’t think about why or how’s she doing, just think about you, make yourself safe.

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