Anger

I dated someone for 7 months. It started off good. I thought we had a connection. I asked where we were going and he reassured me we were going somewhere. He told me to be patient so I was. Twice he got stressed and pulled away. Each time I was confused. We seemed to stay connected the first but this time seems different. He told me he was stressed, having family issues, job issues but there appears to be something he doesn’t want me to know. This time he has It pulled away and it appears he intends to stay away. He got a loan from me and paid most of it back so I thought just maybe I had become someone he cared for and trusted. I don’t understand how someone can tell you they adore you and you matter to them one minute then treat you like you don’t exist the next. I’m angry. I hadn’t dated anyone in seven years and I thought I had something wonderful. Now I know I don’t. I reached out on Friday to say, I know you have been through a lot. I’ve been patient. If you are still going through them take all the time you need. If you have moved on I wish you well. If you want to talk I look forward to talking. Have a good day! His response, I’ve called a few times but I have no record of those calls.