first ever breakup

I just got broken up with yesterday and I feel my world crushed. I’m a freshmen and I’ve been with this boy for 6 months. That may not seem like alot but he was my first everything he was best friend and honestly my only friend. I gave my all to him and I feel so alone now. He told me he was leaving me for his mental health , idk if I believe that I don’t know how people survive breakups I don’t feel alive and I can’t stop feeling nauseous idk what to do with myself and I’m having thoughts I promised myself I’d never have. I really didn’t understand how people can be so obsessed over their ex but now I get it. I’m seeking advice and older sisters to help me get through this🫤

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Anonymous20mo ago

I’m so sorry ❤️ First love and first heartbreak are some of the highest highs and lowest lows one can experience in life. Not sure if this will be helpful but here goes. I remember when my first love broke up with me, I was completely shocked, floored, in utter disbelief. I thought that they had all the same thoughts / feelings / desires that I did. That they somehow knew what I had been thinking, felt the same way, and then threw it all away. Well, turns out they didn’t feel the same way. It took me a while to get over them, and I admit I had some of the same thoughts I think you’re alluding to. I think we all do as young people. Anyway, please promise me you won’t act on them, but once you get over the worst of the crying, please starting opening up to someone you trust. Even a school counselor, or family, or make new friends. I feel you. I’m rooting for you. And can’t wait to see how beautifully your life turns out after this ❤️

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