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impassionedriverw44m
19mo ago
Seeking Advice

idk how i feel.

We were together for just a year she ended up losing feelings and a bunch of other things. But it feels so hard to believe that she did. I loved her with my whole heart and she didn’t. She was overly flirty with other people, got mad when i’d try to be affectionate in public, never looked at my side of the story, etc. She was just a really toxic person i don’t know i why i miss her so much. After we broke up we started talking again. To summarize it she only did it to use me for my body. Im still young so i know i have a lot to look forward to but this girl fucked me up. She knew my whole family. One moment i’ll be fine then the next i’m crying. My parents are worried about me, my grades are dropping bad and i’m just always sad. Even tho she was toxic i can’t imagine somebody treating me better than she did. After everything how could she move on so fast? How could she do me so dirty. And why do i want her back so bad? I wanna be happy again.

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totalordinaryo719mo ago

Hey man, one thing I’ll say is try to never allow your personal life to be affected so much over a woman that clearly had no respect for you. This break up is going to be hard because you cared, put in effort, and she didn’t reciprocate that. I’m 3 months into a 5 year break up where I’m the one that caused the hurting and she eventually left. The first few days ares the worst, then the weeks come by and it gets a tiny bit better and with the months you’ll naturally start to feel better. It really does take time but you have to get yourself together, go no contact with this person, and build yourself up to the point where you’re able to move forward one day. I really hope things get better for you brother. We’re in this together 🙏🏾, you got it.

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