Do women come back?

She and I shared a wonderful 3+ years together. We spent the bulk of course college lives together, despite going to schools 2 hours apart. There was no infidelity, abuse, manipulation, etc. We recently moved back to our home town, her starting her nursing job and me finishing school online while working part time. I was not in a good spot mentally during our time together, and often struggled to meet her needs and expectations, for I wasn’t meeting my own. She broke up with me, insisting she still loved me but had fallen out of love with me. She said my lack of self-care and motivation ended up lushing her away, as we are in a transitional period in our lives. I have since indulged in everything she always wanted me to do for myself, and I am making great progress as an individual. I can’t help but think it’s possible to rekindle, for what we shared was incredible. Am I delusional?

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splendidholdzj0suv7mo ago

I left my man because he was on pills for his sickness that I didn’t think he needed. It was an addiction too. I had responsibilities and I couldn’t deal with him being on substances all the time. We were broken up for like 9 months mostly during Covid. He got off of everything and it was like the first time we met because I had never know him sober. I loved him and it’s been 5 years and I still loved him and bought him a house and car paid in full. That was 3 years ago. I was totally happy. Now we are not together and I’m totally heartbroken. But he left me. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and I never thought this would happen. The point is that yes women can come back. I love him very much. Get off all substances even doctor ones and eat healthy and work out. Nothing wrong can come of that

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