healthy breakup

I’m having a hard time lately because this guy I was seeing was having financial issues and decided to end our relationship. He is the first person to show me how much I deserve and love me so deeply. However, as his life got more complicated, he pulled away from me even more until eventually he couldn’t do it. He let go. And I’m having a really hard time because I would have stuck by him but he made the decision for both of us to end the relationship. I want to get back together but idk if his life will ever get better and when. I know time heals, but I don’t want to let him go. I just want to ask for support and advice I guess

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sandyfix85qmphq21mo ago

I’m sorry you’re going through that. You could try to communicate about why that is a deal breaker for him, and explain that it’s not for you. But if he’s going to shut you out, there isn’t much you can do about it. You can focus on reconnecting with yourself. Make a plan for activities to do the next few days to help yourself as you deal with the intense emotion. Focus on self care and meeting your basic needs 💕

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Anonymous21mo ago

Did he give a reason why the financial hardship was a barrier to the relationship? Like maybe he would have to spend more time working and wouldn’t be able to spend the time with you he knows he wants to? In any case, I’m sorry to hear about that and maybe would ask him why and see if there’s anything that can be worked towards as an intermediary solution? Sending healing hugs ❤️

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