i need to be okay with my life, the good and the bad parts. i tend to use relationships to escape my life because i don’t know what im doing with it. i want to take this breakup and time being single to find myself and do what i want to do. but im struggling please offer advice
You can do this. Focus on you. Watch encouraging break up videos daily on TikTok. Make a list of your strengths, start deciding what you’re best at and do that. Make a list of everything you’re grateful for. Find a therapist or a life coach, even if you have to follow one for free via social media. We all have wounds that keep us from being our best self but only we can overcome that. Daily affirmations are great as well- you got this!
I get you. I feel like we’re in similar situations. Read There’s a Hole in My Love Cup, and start figuring out who you are and why you feel the way you do about yourself (easier said than done, trust me). Once you do, things will get easier. It’s so hard for us to know ourselves and why we are who we are and act the ways we do, but this book can help. Print out the workbook too and try to do a chapter a day. Therapy helps too, so do friends. Good luck. You got this!
I get you. I feel like we’re in similar situations. Read There’s a Hole in My Love Cup, and start figuring out who you are and why you feel the way you do about yourself (easier said than done, trust me). Once you do, things will get easier. It’s so hard for us to know ourselves and why we are who we are and act the ways we do, but this book can help. Print out the workbook too and try to do a chapter a day. Therapy helps too, so do friends. Good luck. You got this!
I can relate to this so much. I thought this relationship was making my life better. But now I realize I was using it to escape my problems in other areas of my life. I feel very lost. I’m going to try to read a book about quarter life crisises 😂
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