Recently broke up

We broke up in the start of this year. She said she was tired in the relationship. I tried to work on myself for so long. Started surprising her more often, drove hours and hours to see her parents three weekends in a row. And last weekend she said she still feels tired and nothing changed. I feel like nothing was ever enough. Also her family was against me from the start. We broke up Friday. Saturday she texts me she misses me so much. I reply I miss you too, and she says: its better to not have any contact anymore, because it hurts too much. I’m feeling so empty