I am curious to read your experiences on getting back together after breakup? Did it work out at the end? If not, do you know why? How much time is needed between breakup and getting back together? What did you do differently the second time around to make it work? How to deal with forgiveness or trust issues? All that you know. Thank you!
Getting back together after things went wrong is pretty difficult. I think for it to work both of you will have to work as a team, it’s you against everyone. Obviously can there be some issues like lack of trust or communication but if you really love that person you should try as hard as you can. I have experience with it, not good experience but I know why it didn’t work out with me. I still love my ex but he is too immature at this point where he gets influenced by wrong people and where he can’t become a better version of himself. I know he can’t deal with his emotions that’s also an issue so it’s more like, he has to overcome bad habits and get a reality check. Because now we aren’t together anymore but I do think if he would grow up and see what he’s doing and stops that it could work again. But at this point maybe in another life .
Same here 😔
I know two different couples who got married after they broke up one time. And they’ve been together for a long time now. I think it depends on what the breakup is for. If it’s a cycle of breaking up and getting back together it probably won’t work out, because clearly the relationship keeps not working. In the case of the couples I knew, they broke up because one of them was scared about getting married. Then during the break ups they realized they were ready.
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