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marriedcellc5gge
15mo ago
Seeking Advice

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He ended things with me like a month and half ago. It has been extremely hard for me and I just haven’t been able to move past it. He was my best friend, my everything. He made me so happy and ever since the breakup I try to keep up with no contact but every other week I end up breaking it. I can just sense that now he’s getting really frustrated and annoyed. He’s never said it but he’s never been this cold with me. But he’s so unaffected without me. I just feel that my absence doesn’t bother him but his absence KILLS me. Like how can someone be so okay. Idk how to not break no contact and move on.

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Wheatbread8115mo ago

I am so sorry that you are experiencing this. It’s hard to unwind someone from your nervous system. One thing that helps me is to physically put my journal on top of my phone. When I want to contact and reach for my phone, I try to journal instead.

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similarholidaya1515mo ago

I know your pain completely but you must be Patient with your self since he went cold I would stop contact and let him realize what he lost he won’t realize it until you leave and if he doesn’t come back it wasn’t meant to be and yes I know that’s not what you want to hear but you must regain your strength or you’ll just keep pushing him further I’m wishing abundance in your mindset you can and will be ok

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dotingcornerkv15mo ago

i’m literally going through the exact same thing rn. i’m trying to learn that you’re giving him exactly what he wants by texting him. make him feel, and regret, your absence

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marriedcellc5gge15mo ago

I feel you. Sometimes I feel like I can’t do this anymore. I wake up with a heavy heart and go to sleep with a heavy heart. Can’t even sleep most of the times. But time heals and I wish all the healing and happiness to you too!!

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marriedcellc5gge15mo ago

I feel you. Sometimes I feel like I can’t do this anymore. I wake up with a heavy heart and go to sleep with a heavy heart. Can’t even sleep most of the times. But time heals and I wish all the healing and happiness to you too!!

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