Although I was the one that hurt her she’s still staying in contact with me. Not sure if I should see that as a sign or if she’s just being nice to me. It’s been 3 months after the break up and I’m trying to win her back. I’m just afraid that I will hurt myself believing there’s still a chance. She said she needs time before giving me another chance.
I’ve been here before very recently actually, I did the hurting as well but we still stayed in contact and it just kind of shifted to a friends with benefits situation. After 5 months of trying to win her back things just became more hurtful on both ends and I feel like I wasted my time a little. I’d say just slack up on the things you do to try to win her back and see what happens. At the moment you may have to settle for a permanent friendship, that’s what I wish I would’ve did.
What kind of things is she communicating to you while you two are in contact? I’m guessing they are more of things friends tell each other? Have you two spent time together since the breakup?
Yeah it is more along the lines of what friends communicate. There are times when we talk about our last relationship and she gets very angry at how I treated her so we avoid those conversations. I’ve seen her about 3 to 4 times since the break up and we set a date to see each other again in January.
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