I saw him today and I need help please

I saw him today after 3 months of breakup. We totally ignored each other. He was the one who ended things “over text” in a very disrespectful manner, though i begged him to fix, he handled the breakup in the shittiest way you can think of. THE QUESTION HERE IS: is it normal to expect him not to ignore me in public? Why did I imagine him coming to day hi? Or to want to talk to me? And when he didn’t; I felt stupidly sad and anxious, i don’t understand these post breakup emotions, how does healing work? Why do I miss him and want him to apologize and got triggered when he ignored me???????? Someone explain so I can have a clear perspective on this. My mins is killing me

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AmyJune7mo ago

Yes, it is normal to expect him not to ignore you 3 months post breakup. He sounds extremely immature. A grown real man would not treat someone they cared about at one point in life like that. That is why you expected different. Because you obviously have a true sensitive caring heart and he does not. It’s extremely selfish of him. I’m sure he knows it hurt you. So hopefully this makes you realize he is not right for you. If you truly love someone you wouldn’t treat them so disrespectfully. Use this as a reminder to fuel yourself to heal and move on. There is better out there for you coming. You will see someday and understand why you went through that relationship. To become the person you are meant to be when the right man comes along. You’ve got this sweets. 🤗

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