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cruelbig6
5mo ago
No Contact

2 years wasted

we were together for two years, a week ago he broke up with me because he wanted to see his friends more than me and that made me upset. ever since we broke up he’s been out every single night til 3am with his bad friends and now he’s been talking to a new girl who i didn’t like and got upset at him ages ago because he followed her on tiktok. It’s been a day no contact. my heart feels like it’s dying because i feel so angry and jealous of that new girl but i miss the old him so much. i haven’t aten for a week, i haven’t showered for a week or cleaned my room i feel like a mess

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sandyfix85qmphq5mo ago

This doesn’t mean that they’ve found someone better, or didn’t care. But it does show that you need better boundaries so you don’t see what this person is doing anymore. Don’t let yourself check his socials, block if necessary. Go no contact. Don’t let friends update you on him. This will help protect you from feeling this way again and reopening the wound. Focus on you- force yourself to eat, exercise and shower. You’ve got this, you’ll get through this. Over time it won’t feel as heart wrenching. Rooting for you ❤️

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sandyfix85qmphq5mo ago

And if you can’t eat, exercise or shower. Make it easier on yourself. Get protein bars, sit outside in the sun if possible, get face wipes or body wipes.

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automaticaccidentnm5mo ago

I am so sorry you’re going through this. It’s so hard when they move on so fast. My ex broke up with me on Thursday and is now on a trip this weekend with the girl I was told not to worry about

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