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deafeningplasticrpuy
12mo ago
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My bf of 3 years whom I thought I had a great and solid relationship with just broke up with me. This was the best relationship I’ve ever been in. I truly thought he was the one. He’s just been very unsure about the future for a while and came to the realization that he didn’t know if he could ever really commit to me. So he decided to end it. And it all makes sense etc, I just really never imagined that would ever happen. I think we both just brushed it off to his anxiety and thought it would get better. It’s also cliche but I’ve never been loved like that, and I see why we’re here and that it’s for the best but that’s still a tough one to swallow. Anyone been though something similar?

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slushyenthusiasmy4hi12mo ago

I’m Sorry that happened to you. I went through something similar, I had a girl that was great to me and great for me but I was never in love with her for whatever reason. I got with someone I thought was more of my type and it fell apart in 4 months. Guess that was my karma. Believe me it always comes back on you when you hurt someone who has nothing but good intentions for you. I’m a coward for having her fall for me then bailing out like she meant nothing to me. I regret it but I know she deserves better

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slushyenthusiasmy4hi12mo ago

I’m Sorry that happened to you. I went through something similar, I had a girl that was great to me and great for me but I was never in love with her for whatever reason. I got with someone I thought was more of my type and it fell apart in 4 months. Guess that was my karma. Believe me it always comes back on you when you hurt someone who has nothing but good intentions for you. I’m a coward for having her fall for me then bailing out like she meant nothing to me. I regret it but I know she deserves better

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lawfulmaterialdsy612mo ago

Hey. I have been through a similar situation. This was my best relationship and thought he was the one. But he couldn’t commit and made me feel like I had to be a lil bit more to be the one for him. This all made my self worth really bad. But it’s been some time and I have come to the realisation that it was him who was the problem. Men used to go to wars, built monuments for their woman and these guys can’t commit? It’s his issues and his problem. He needs to be in therapy. You know I did everything I could to save the relationship but I need somebody who chooses me without these stupid thoughts. Now, I’ve made a decision to choose myself the same way he could never. I realised I don’t deserve somebody like him. I know it’s tough rn girly, but you’ll get there. I promise. And trust me, you’ll be able to fall in love again, open your heart and somebody will choose you everyday. It’s tough dealing with a breakup but you choose yourself everyday and you’ll get through this!

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