I need help

He basically broke up with me three weeks ago because he was tired and didn’t want a relationship anymore after we had been together for almost a year. He was my first love and we experienced all our firsts together. We have started to go no contact about two weeks ago and it’s honestly the worst thing ever because he was my best friend. I constantly check his social media and he keeps following more girls which is making me question if he didn’t want a relationship because he wanted to explore. However when we were breaking up we both cried and he did tell me he loves me and how this is really hard on him. He also said that if he ever wants a relationship again in the future he wants it to be with me. Is it silly that I have hope of us getting back together and should I just try and move on. Please tell me what you think as it would be much appreciated

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generousemphasisqmvg11mo ago

I think it would be best to try and move on. The hope of him coming back never quite goes away until you move on. And if he does come back, make a wise decision. List out the pros and cons. I hope everything goes well for you.

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well-madeoutsidewa5611mo ago

omg this is my exact situation girl. we broke up in october and i still cant get over it. he comes back like once a month to give me hope and just leaves again after a week. i think the best way to cope is to cut all connections with him. the only issue for me is i have to see him three times a week at my training group so its so hard. we can speak if u want to connect over similar experiences xxx

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