Just had a date
Just had a date after a loooooooooooong time mourning my past relationship. I know most people here have gone through their breakups fairly recently but I thought maybe this one data point could help someone. I thought my ex was the one. That she was perfect in every way, that even though she broke up with me she would come back and apologize and I would forgive her because she was so great. Well. I couldn’t. This new girl though is much more compatible with me humor wise and is super smart and independent too. I’m not sure of a future with here but just wanted to share with some people maybe still trapped in the immediate fog of a breakup that other people exist, and they have the qualities that would make them good partners. Maybe it wont work if there are dealbreakers on either side, but for now I’m keeping an open mind on the truths and not letting my emotions control me