My husband has been cheating

I ended my relationship because he was cheating on me. It was excruciating. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Don't stoop to his level by also cheating. You are reacting like this because what he did was not in alignment with your values(also its normal to feel this hurt). Don't do it because that's who you are. Don't let him take away who you are on top of everything else. I think the best thing you could do right now is to get space from him so you can process all that's going through your head. I really struggled to accept the reality of my situation, because my partner was gaslighting me. The book leave a cheater gain a life helped me. I also liked the betrayal bind. Therapy and joining online support groups also helped. Ugh wishing you the best right now 💕💕

It's okay to feel these things. You had amazing memories with him. But right now you need to leave. Once they cheat that's it. And I know you don't want that and you have a beautiful daughter but do it for her. You would never want anyone to cheat on her/ you would tell her to leave whoever was cheating on her. Show her what self love is! I am currently trying to find it with a codependent 3 year relationship and am having panic attacks all the time but it will get better and there's hope in knowing that.

Yeah revenge feels good, but then you’ll be just like him. You’re better and you deserve better. Wait the 10 years and get him for alimony, if you can, and child support!