Break up after 7 years

… the last 5 years he has been in prison and I have been supporting him (false charges). I’m not sure if he relapsed , if he has been using me for five years, if he is sabotaging himself and our relationship or if he has become something else listening to the people he is in there with… but he suddenly starts saying nasty things to me on my deceased brothers bday, literally a week before he gets out. After literally writing me romantic love letters for 5 years. I clearly can’t stand for it and have to quit him but holy shit it’s painful especially after feeding myself this dream that life will be better and easier when he gets out. Took of the week of work for his release and everything :/ appreciate support

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DREWLEA7715mo ago

That sounds so so familiar. 9 years with him- unless I count the times he’d dump me for a few months then get me back, and that has happened quite a few times. He just ghosted me again- for no damn reason. I feel frantic and sad and angry and sometimes wish I’d just die in my sleep so I won’t hurt anymore. This is probably the 15th time he’s dumped me like this

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kindheartednegotiati15mo ago

I hope you have read the chemical education piece here . Sounds like your body is going thru it chemically with all the yo-yo of emotions. Really hope you are doing better

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