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spicymeaning9j1
18mo ago
Seeking Advice

What do i do

me and my ex boyfriend were together for 2 years, we still talk but he’s blunt he said he lost feelings for me and doesn’t love me anymore as he kept saying he didn’t want me in his life anymore, didn’t want a relationship right now this and that and some days he would be confusing we would go to sleep together be nice and loving and caring but yesterday I finally said “ you lost me” i pushed him away and sometimes think it’s my fault he left and started losing feelings and being blunt to me but the past week i’ve been crying i woke up started crying thinking about him and needing him , i called him asking if we can sleep together i was crying and told him i miss him then we went sleep 2 days ago but as i said yesterday i text him saying you’ve lost me as i don’t know how to get him back or what else to do. I’ve tried to leave him alone because I’ve tried to do no contact but it’s so hard for me because i love him so much and miss him but this time i’m committed to try it to see if anything will change as he knows i always come back to him either text or call him maybe i need to leave for good to make him realise he’s lost me?? but he’s still got my name as pumpkin ♥️♥️ in his phone and all my pictures

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ironcladsignatureb18mo ago

Girl you deserve better. Stop trying to get him back. He knows you will always go back to him so he treats you however he wants. The only way to show someone they lost you is for them to actually lose you and for you to walk away for good. You dont deserve this. You are loved 🫂

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Anonymous18mo ago

If he’s blunt then maybe the best way to go about it is to ask him if he wants to be exclusive point blank and if he says he doesn’t then it’s best to leave if that’s not what you want

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KHM101718mo ago

He’s going to continue doing this to you because he knows you’ll let him come back. Stop reaching out if you want him to know you’re serious. Don’t tell him you miss him, don’t tell him he hurt you, he already knows that and he clearly doesn’t respect your feelings. By continuously reaching out you’re letting him know his actions are acceptable. If he says he doesn’t love you anymore believe him and walk away. You deserve to be loved.

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KHM101718mo ago

He’s going to continue doing this to you because he knows you’ll let him come back. Stop reaching out if you want him to know you’re serious. Don’t tell him you miss him, don’t tell him he hurt you, he already knows that and he clearly doesn’t respect your feelings. By continuously reaching out you’re letting him know his actions are acceptable. If he says he doesn’t love you anymore believe him and walk away. You deserve to be loved.

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